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Some Thing about Love (一) Love means having a responsibility toward the person I love . This responsibility does not involve my doing for you what you are capable of doing for yourselves ; nor does it mean that I run your life for you , so that I am directly involved in your happiness and your misery . A lover does have the capacity to hurt or neglect the loved one , and in this sense I see that love involves an acceptance of some responsibility for the impact my way of being has on you .
Love means making a commitment to the person I love . This commitment does not involve giving up our total selves to each other ; nor does it imply that our relationship is necessarily permanent . It does involve a willingness to stay with each other in times of pain , uncertainty , struggle , and despair , well as in times of calm and enjoyment .
爱情意味着对所爱的人负责。但这种责任并不包括我替你做你自己能做的事情,也并不包括我替你经营你的生活。但这份责任确实意味着要承认我的所作所为对你有影响,所以我会直接参与你的忧喜悲欢。作为爱人确实有能力伤害或漠视所爱的人。从这种意义上说,爱情意味着我的生活方式对我所爱的人产生影响,我应该为这种影响负责。
爱情意味着要对所爱的人做出承诺。这种承诺并不是说要为对方完全放弃自我,也不是说这种爱情关系一定要永远不变。但这种承诺确实表示愿意和所爱的人分担一切,不管是痛苦、迷惘、奋斗、失望,或者是宁静和快乐。
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